Tears

Thursday, 11 February 2010, 15:44 | Category : Uncategorized
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Lately, I’ve been surrounded by people in strange relationships, and so I decided to vent here.

One person in the relationship leads a more liberal lifestyle and the other is more traditional, so they argue about everything. That’s not right people. You probably knew this about each other before you got married. It intensified when you got married, but so what?! Talk about it, discuss things, and agree to disagree.  Why all the yelling and dragging your families and friends into it? This is your life together, and some things should be kept between the two of you. One does not have to change/dominate the other.

Girls, if your man is abusing you, whether verbally, emotionally, or physically, drop him! Khalas, do not go to your friends crying and saying that you hate him and then say that you can’t leave him because you love him! Athaitoona! We’re trying to look out for you! Either take the advice you came for seriously, or don’t come to us at all. You know we’re right, and you know your relationship isn’t heading anywhere. So deal with it in a way that’s best for you. We can’t tell you what or what not to do. This is your relationship, your life, and your future.

A point for the new wifies who have been coming to me and telling me that their husbands have their headsets on their heads and laptops on their laps during lunch and other quality time you’re supposed to spend together, yank them off of him. Demand the attention. You deserve it. Why are you letting him ignore your existence and belittle your time together? And guess what? He doesn’t realize he’s doing anything that hurts your feelings because you’re not pointing it out!

On cheating.. Here it is: if you would not be okay with your spouse, partner, companion, etc. if s/he were doing what you’re doing, then don’t do it! If you’re thinking about someone else in a way you shouldn’t be, it’s cheating. Flirty text messages, e-mails, phone calls, etc. are cheating. Inappropriate feelings are cheating. It does not have to be physical. And NO, they’re not JUST messages or phone calls or feelings because they lead to other more serious things!

When I decide to be open for therapy sessions, I’ll let you know.

There!

P.S. I’m venting, v e n t i n g, venting. This is not me telling people what to do. It’s a rush of raw emotions. If you don’t get that, your comment will be ignored. Bite me.

11 Comments for “Tears”

  1. 1N.

    3afiya 3alech ;* You should charge people who read this post for consultation =p Allah e3en the couples who have issues going on and seriously, nothing beats talking it out ppl, whatever it is, just talk about it with your partner/spouse.

  2. 2Amethyst

    N.
    Lol! I should, I should. Then, I should buy shoes;p

  3. 3FourMe

    spot on..

    i detest people who ask for advice but don’t take it.. they don’t ask for your views NO they say i want advice and I’ll follow it, and when u give it they turn around and say ya but I can’t do that.. *smack smack*

  4. 4Amethyst

    FourMe
    Exactly! 7adich fahamteeni! 6ragat, 6ragaaaaat!

  5. 5Pisces Chick

    Beautiful .. I agree with you 100%
    Couples should learn to work together to solve their problems and not share them with others!

  6. 6Amethyst

    Pisces Chick
    Thank you :)

  7. 7Moos

    Ye5ba6o ras’hom bel 7ee6 ya5ti…

  8. 8lendmeurear

    i know exactly wut u mean! i really dont get those who ask for your advice then go ahead and do wuts in their mind; y waste my time??!

    and yes ppl do solve ur issues privately!!

  9. 9Amethyst

    Moos
    Lol, mn wain 6ela3t?

    Wenta elsaj!

    lendmeurear
    Exactly. There’s not point. I’d really appreciate it if they just said they want to vent. Sigh!

  10. 10Vinnie

    so, this therapy thing.. we have to book in advance :P ?

  11. 11Amethyst

    Vinnie
    I’m not open for therapy, especially not for you;p

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